This year at Easter I found myself thinking about religion. Maybe this is normal, but I’m not a terribly religious person, so for me Easter isn’t much of a religious celebration. Instead, I see religious holidays (and all holidays for that matter) as a time for family and friends to come together and think of each other.
Many of our friends here in Portland are church-goers (and fairly religious church-goers at that!). In some ways I envy the social network that they’ve found and enjoy so much (where else is it so easy to find “quality” people in this age group?) – but I don’t think I could ever choose that path for myself. I had the same problem when I stopped going to church when I was 8 – why would I join a group where I don’t share the beliefs that are the the foundation of their relationships?
Over the years I’ve had a few people ask me pointed questions about what I do believe. So, how about this:
- I believe we should treat each other with respect and love
- I believe that once my basic needs are met (and this does include a little me time every day), I should spend a good chunk of my energy doing things for other people before I look back to myself
- I believe I should be responsible for my actions
- I believe I need to try to make the most of what Ihave, even when I don’t feel like I’ve got a lot
- I believe that people should celebrate our different beliefs and realize that for the most part, they boil down to the same thing: living a good life
- As for the really bad things out in the world – they exist. I try not to allow the bad things into my life, but if they intrude, they have to be dealt with just like anything else.
Shortly before Easter I also saw a news segment about not complaining. It seems to me like complaining less and appreciating more is a good way to go. I think it seems like a good thing for me to work on during April!
P.S. I appreciate that it snowed yesterday and that it is starting to snow today! Amazing weather for Portland at the end of March!